🚀 How to test co-founder compatibility?

3 tactics, 2 traps and 1 tool to test co-founder compatibility

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Today, we’ll be answering the question: How to test co-founder compatibility?"

If you are wondering whether someone is the right cofounder, today’s newsletter is for you.

🔥 Inside this issue:

✅ 3 tactics to test co-founder compatibility
✅ 2 traps to avoid 
✅ 1 tool to leverage 

👇Let’s dive in.

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3 tactics to test co-founder compatibility

🧪 Prioritize speed, clarity, ownership, curiosity and openness

  • Speed: Do they move fast or get stuck in analysis paralysis?

  • Clarity: Can they explain complex ideas simply? If they can't make you understand their thinking, how will they explain it to customers or investors?

  • Ownership: Do they take responsibility when things go sideways, or do they play the blame game? (Spoiler alert: things will definitely go sideways)

  • Curiosity: Are they asking the right questions and digging deeper, or just nodding along? Curious people find solutions that others miss

  • Openness: Do they hear your feedback and seriously consider it? Or do they dismiss anything anyone else suggests?

  • Keep in mind, both of you are evaluating each other early on; anyone can walk away whenever with no drama and no hard feelings

🛠️ Collaborate on a trial project

  • Choose a project that uses every co-founder’s abilities and has a real impact to the actual business idea:

    • Find something that bugs all of you and try to solve it to see if you approach problems similarly; the goal is to see how you communicate, divide tasks, and handle real challenges

    • Example: 

      • Design and validate a specific feature

      • Research and recommend a go-to-market strategy for one customer segment

      • Build a small tool or process that your team actually needs

  • There are 2 main approaches:

    • The Sprint: Work together on a trial project that you can finish in 1-4 weeks max

      • Quick, clean, and you'll know pretty fast if you click

    • The Marathon: Start working together more casually over a few months

      • The upside? You get a real feel for the partnership 

      • The downside? You might invest months only to discover you're not compatible and walk away empty-handed

  • Nobody gets paid: You're not hiring each other or paying for each other's time; you're both figuring out if you want to work together 

  • Figure out intellectual property (IP) upfront (e.g. your code, designs, ideas, and anything else) by deciding who owns what you build during the trial

    • Option 1: Company owns everything (most common)

      • Any work done during the trial belongs to your company

      • If they join as co-founder: great, they get equity in the company that owns their work

      • If they don't join: you keep the work, they walk away clean

    • Option 2: Everyone keeps their own IP until they join

      • Everyone owns what they create during trial

      • This protects each individual, but creates issues if they don’t join after creating IP that is core to the company

🤝 Discuss equity expectations

  • See if you’re directionally aligned early on by discussing it at a high level even if you save exact numbers for later

  • There are typically 2 camps of thought on how co-founders should split equity:

    • Equal Partnership: Some prefer it when everyone has equal skin in the game and everyone feels equally valued and motivated

    • One Person as Tiebreak: Others prefer the "someone needs to be the tiebreaker" approach where one person has slightly more equity for decision-making power

  • If one co-founder is bringing way more to the table than the other, think about splitting things unequally

2 traps to avoid

🚨 Avoid trial projects that become endless, free labor traps, or overly perfectionist

  • The endless project: If scope keeps creeping and timelines keep extending, that's how they'll run your startup too

  • The free labor trap: You're evaluating each other, not getting free consulting work; make sure it's mutual

  • The perfectionist project: If they can't ship something "good enough" for a trial, they'll struggle with startup speed

🚨 Delaying breaking up

  • If you’ve noticed lack of compatibility, it’s time to move on quickly without wasting each other’s time

  • If it doesn’t work out for any reason, leverage this template to reach out to your co-founder candidate:

    • "Hey, I learned a ton working together on this. I don't think our working styles are the right fit for a co-founder partnership, but I really appreciate your time and great work."

1 tool to leverage

📖 Best practice on testing co-founder compatibility

  • It’s common to take 3 to 6 months to hire an executive; the same amount of care should be taken for a co-founder

  • Use these 50 questions to explore with a co-founder as a starting point to knowing your co-founder better

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